It's clear from reading the essays in My Life on the Swingset that swinging has changed Cooper Beckett's life for the better. But this is not a book about swinger evangelization. Instead, it's a smart, funny, intimate look at how a shy geek who'd planned to save sex for marriage became an out bisexual male swinger. His journey does much more than let readers live vicariously through his adventures; it allows them the space and gives them a framework to ask themselves some of the same questions about love, lust, identity and sexual values that Beckett asks of himself every step of the way."