MyLotSS-Podcast

The podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory.

Starting with a first date with a couple of swingers, followed by working through social anxiety and shyness, recognizing the importance of touch in life, evolving feelings about love and expectations, having threesomes, orgies, and prostate orgasms, going through a divorce, and leveling up in life and sexuality.

For five years, Cooper S. Beckett has written for Life on the Swingset. The website was born out of the feeling that he’d learned enough in his whole year of swinging to tell other people how to live their non-monogamous lives. His hubris can be seen from space. Here he has collected personal essays, stories, erotica, and prescriptive “how-tos” into this memoir of his life on The Swingset.

He may be biased when it comes to swinging, polyamory, and other forms of ethical non-monogamy (in fact, he most certainly is) but he doesn’t sugar-coat it. He speaks honestly and earnestly about a unique way to live life, one that allows for sexual and loving growth and experimentation, a strong sense of community, and the ability to do what we all crave whether we know it or not: Be honest with ourselves and others about what we want sexually. And out of life.

Love Will Out – Thoughts From The Brink at the End of 2016

Love Will Out – Thoughts From The Brink at the End of 2016

It's really been a year, hasn't it? I know I've been quieter than usual, at least here on the blog. I've been outspoken to the point of blithering loudmouth elsewhere, though. Including a misguided, if impassioned, attempt to reign...

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Two Chapters from A Life Less Monogamous – The Audiobook

Two Chapters from A Life Less Monogamous – The Audiobook

This is the first two chapters from my novel A Life Less Monogamous in audiobook form, read by myself, Cooper S. Beckett, and Kat Stark. Buy through the buttons below to SAVE 10% with promo code SWINGSET! We all come to a point...

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The Bisexual Male Apocalypse – MyLotss Audiobook

The Bisexual Male Apocalypse – MyLotss Audiobook

The veil is lifting, and Cooper believes that the acceptance of bisexual males is becoming more commonplace. He has his fingers crossed. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging &...

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The Key to a Successful Reboot – MyLotss Audiobook

The Key to a Successful Reboot – MyLotss Audiobook

"I don't want to swing anymore." The feeling can come up for everybody. This is how to work your way through that, and reboot. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in...

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The Switch: Dom and sub in a Single Night – MyLotss Audiobook

The Switch: Dom and sub in a Single Night – MyLotss Audiobook

Being Dom and being sub in a single night in San Francisco. Cooper takes us back and forth between both scenes. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory...

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We Begin with Talk Of Drink and Debauchery – MyLotss Audiobook

We Begin with Talk Of Drink and Debauchery – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper puts on his drunken gonzo journalism hat to talk about a melon ball fueled evening at Desire Resort & Spa in Mexico. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging...

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Flipping the Switch: P-spot and G-Spot Orgasms – MyLotss Audiobook

Flipping the Switch: P-spot and G-Spot Orgasms – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper talks about the weird phenomena of his prostate orgasm after effects, the jittery waves of orgasms, which have started appearing after non-prostate orgasms as well. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset:...

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The Brown-Eyed Girl – MyLotss Audiobook

The Brown-Eyed Girl – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper tells the story of his vacation crush, the brown-eyed girl he met in San Francisco. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett....

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Greetings From The Deep End – MyLotss Audiobook

Greetings From The Deep End – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper details the journey from bright-eyed newbie to someone who's got at least some of "it" figured out. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper...

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Nerves and Dysfunction – MyLotss Audiobook

Nerves and Dysfunction – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper talks about erectile dysfunction and being nervous about swinging. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut...

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Nervous Newbies – MyLotss Audiobook

Nervous Newbies – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper tells a story of a night with newbies that turned into more than planned unexpectedly. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett....

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The Safe Zone: Giving Yourself Permission to Screw Up – MyLotss Audiobook

The Safe Zone: Giving Yourself Permission to Screw Up – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper posits the concern mitigation of designating a time and place a safe zone from judgement, and thus allowing yourself freedom to make mistakes. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in...

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How To Hide a Sex Swing – MyLotss Audiobook

How To Hide a Sex Swing – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper takes you through how to hide a sex swing. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut...

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We Were All Newbies Once – MyLotss Audiobook

We Were All Newbies Once – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper discusses the newbie question of "how does this work?" and how it applies to swinging. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett....

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Wanderlust – Let’s All Go Exploring – MyLotss Audiobook

Wanderlust – Let’s All Go Exploring – MyLotss Audiobook

Cooper talks about the fact that we all have wanderlust, a "grass is greener" mentality, and how our society would be so much healthier if we didn't stigmatize it so hard. This is the podcast version of the audiobook My...

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